Six ways to make other people like you. If you want people to like you...

How to win friends and influence people 

 Six ways to make people like you.If you want people to like you.....

Rule #1: Become genuinely interested in other people. 

-  You should have communication with others and have good skills. Also it all depends on your personality and the type of subjects you are interested in. If you want to become genuinely interested by other people you have to remember there names , be a good listener, make the other people feel important. Also you have to smile a lot so they can know you are actually interested in being their friends. This quote means that if you want to be become genuinely interested by others you just have to have good personality towards others and show them that you are interest in being their friend.


Rule #2: Smile

- Smile even though your going threw a rough time. Is better then explaining what is wrong.When you meet new people always smile and they will like they way you show them how interested you are. Make people wonder why you're smiling.Don't let dumb things destroy your happiness. When you smile you seem more active and that is good because that means that you are feeling good and you are showing everyone that you are happy. Always being with a smile at morning and end a smile at night. The quote on the right says that always smile no matter what just show everyone that you are okay but deep inside your not. You don't look mad or upset because i don't think you would like to explain whats wrong because then you are going to get emotionally and you don't want that you wanna smile and live life. Smile it doesn't hurt to try once in a while. Whatever is bothering you right now don't let it bring you down.

Rule #3 ; Remember Names

-  Remember names. " A man's is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language." " If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble." This to me is important because i wouldn't like it if they forgot my name after a long time knowing that person. Knowing a persons name is really important because they people will know that you know them and will like to be friends with them. Names are like a life to someone the thing that represents them. There are a lot of people that call other people different names, when the person only wants to be called by his/her name. When you know someones name you greet  them well. Names represents identity to that person. Identity cant be found unless you have a name. 

How to remember names : 1. Trust Yourself  2. Seeing Faces 3. Using sound tricks 4. Hear the sounds repeated 5. Seeing the spelling visually 6. Writing it down 7. Keep records 

Rule #4 : Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves
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 Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. "If you aspire to be a good conversations, be an attentive listener." " Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and hid problems than he is in you and your problems. This rule is really important because it's the truth many people have to listen to others because that's the only why they would listen.  Be a good listener your ears will never get you in trouble. If they ask you about something you talked about you can tell them everything. Don't judge and put negative attitude on them. Being a good listener many people can trust you with the stuff and they will want you to listen to their problems.

Rule #5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest 

·                     Stay Focus 

·                     Really Listen  

·                     Allow for period of silence 

·                     From time to time repeat what they had told you 

·                     Understand the emotions behind the words   

Talk in terms of the other man's interest. " The royal road to man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most." This means to me that give people the opportunity to talk about him self. Talk about something interesting and not boring.  The quite you stay when someone is talking to you the more attention you are paying to that person. Once you talk to someone you will get to know them well that it will be the best feeling you will have because you know someone new. Sometimes when we talk to someone we don't need their advice we can just need someone to listen to us.  The less you talk to someone the more you are hurt. Why? Because the person you used to talk to is now gone and not talking to him/her no more.ms of the other man's interest 

Rule #6: Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely.

• Accept people the way they are 
• Show you admiration
• Pay attention to others 
• Be courteous 

Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely. " The desire to be important in the deepest urge in human nature."( John Dewey ) " Helping people feel important and appreciated works magic." Be patient and wait for the worst to get the best. What makes people feel the magic is not happiness you feel when you are with them, but the pain that they are not with you. Don"t waste your time on someone who doesn't make time for you. If they love you they will find a way . Not a excuse.

Reflection; The way i like to make people like you is Rule 2 Smile. Because that is what people are looking for when they are talking to someone. Smile makes people like you more. A smile can light up people days because they know you are not sad or unhappy. Keep your head high, keep your chin up, and most importantly, keep smiling, because life is a beautiful thing and there is so much to smile about. Smile like you never cried, fight like you never lost, love like you never been hurt, and live like there is no tomorrow. Never regret something that made you smile. I will like to keep doing this when people talk to me because smiling is a nice thing to do when someone is going through a bad day. A smile is like sunlight through a dark window.